CENTRO DE DIAGNÓSTICO Y TRATAMIENTO

CENTRO DE DIAGNÓSTICO Y TRATAMIENTO

lunes, 21 de octubre de 2013

Culture Based Systems vs Nature Based Systems

Below the development of a highly evolved brain and the emergence of thought and reasoning, all development is purely mechanistic. Entities move independently to merge into systems, or respond to their environments, exhibiting natural drives toward continuance, effectiveness being nature's determinant, the ineffective dissolving to become part of something else. Until the development of a highly evolved brain, cognizance and reasoning can have no bearing on development. The emergence of the ability to manipulate one's environment conceptually, using conceptual and physical symbols, introduces reasoned behavior and planning.
Sincé many foundation concepts were gained early is the development of the human animal, having been instituted into human cultures and never corrected, they remain far adrift from factual reality. The por showing of human governing and social systems attests to their divergence from factual reality and natural systems.
In terms of social control there is no question that some formal government is necessary, but we cannot look to present systems as a source of leadership nor for solutions to problems. That is not the nature of authoritarian government.
Governing systems, at this stage in human development, are invariably authoritarian, controlling along the lines of religions and political agendas, belief, dogma and propaganda, the mechanisms of perception manipulation. Force is brought into play where resistance is encountered. this mode of social control suppresses mentality and resistance, and is limited to suppressing, individual drives and behavior, with attendant socially pathogenic consequiences.
In terms of instituted gobernment, an obvious and necessary first principle is thant it can never be a valid role of government to reduce the affectiveness of populations, nor otherwise involve itself in activity that destroys the functionality of individuals, societies or the species. The only valid role a government can possibly have, in the life of a species, is to serve its members in ways that are effective and enhance function toward survival and progress. This can never be achieved by popular opinión, political agendas or religious dogma.
Ultimately, the only valid role of government is as a tool of the individual, the only sorce of objective rationality, and the recognition of nature's principles. The survival of humanity as an intelligent life form depends upon a preponderance of popular orientation to factual reality. Government adrift from these objectives and natural principles will become self serving and destructive to the species through the decompensation of the individual.

Educating Toward Fantasy

Public education, in the United States, is an appendage of government. It educates in support of our cultural delusions, toward an orientation to Authority, belief, and allegiance to existing systems. It functions to indoctrinate toward the support and perpetuation of a culture's institutions. Public education serves to continue the delusion instilling processes began in the home. In general, it reinforces the delusions, which makes real learning a punishing activity, the teachers and administrators affected by the same delusions. The teaching of reasoning and the means of achieving valid determinations is avoided. Questions are kept endlessly open, in the absence of indicationg evidence or definitive determination. Most determinations are based on authority, not discovery by the student.
Public Education supports the cultural myths and fantasies and continues to reinforce these delusions. Public Education tends to squelch natural curiosity and the quiestioning of social dogma. It inevitably encourages irrational goals and instills biases toward the accommodation of our institutionalized and codified delusions and stupidities.
Public Educarion in the Unites States also reflects the abuses of unionism, becoming a self-serving system of process, not product. In this systems, decreasing education costs more. It is a system where teaching is endless process, where teachers pretend to teach and students pretend to learn, neither sensing the ultimate realities.
Public Education maintains approaches and premises that hinder reasoning, the student's ability to react to false teachings and the ability to discriminate and reach valid determinarions. It conditions by reinforcing false premise structures and reasoning patterns that provide only an imagined facility in dealing with problems. It recognizes no absolutes in exitence and teaches none, providing no enduring referents for the student, nor a sense of the ultimate realtionships, unity and harmony.
Its products is increasingly unfit for a technological society or for an effective democracy, which depends upon a predominately rational elecorate for its only source and drive toward self-correction.
Private educarion is lost in a similar miasma, instilling its own irrarional cultural perspectives, reflecting how completely cultural fantasies permeate and distort public perception.
The arts and sciences are also adulterates in the maintenance of mucho of the basic fantasy structure. The whole realm of the Arts is forever being used as an instrument for manipulating perception and selling the authoritarian agenda. Music, in terms of the thought content it conveys, is perhaps the most effective unwitting servant of irrationality. Artists and songwriters are among the least knowledgeable in terms of the underlying ature of problems or how things relate. They express their ignorance, superstitions and distorted reasoning level of delusion. The artista become the nwitting disseminators of misconception and irratioanality, often producing gold plated manure that is wothout value, or of negative value, in terms of its effects upon the public.
Science is encouraged to accommodate the cultural fantasies, necessitating groundless premises, limited reasoning patterns and the formulation of tautological premises are avoided, largely by the routine rejections of basic premises are avoided, largely by the routine rejection of new information originating from any source other tan institutional science. Although less affected by cultural delusion tan other áreas and cultural structures, science does not escape its influence, the are of physics now far afield in misdirection.
The mentally damaged masses enthusuastucally join in the process, propagating and proliferating public dementia. This virulent síndrome is self-generating and self-reinforcing. In all cases, the phatology, ultimately, has its roots in belief, the acceptance of cultural borne ideas in the absence of supporting evidence.
The dynamics of our social systems are easy to understand and easy to follow, once one recognizes the fundamental delusions. The difficulty lies in recognizing the enormity of their cumulative pathology and the devastating effects cultural delusion has on our mental processes and our approaches to problems. We have no untainted standard of comparison and have been taught to avoid comparisons that might lead to effective discrimination between fact and fantasy.
In other words, we are so immersed in cultural delusion that w view the whole sad, sick mess as something normal and inevitable.
Hidden within this fog of popular delusion, the real principles and requierements of social functionality remain, the carácter of which we have not been taught and to which our ignorance and false beliefs renders us virtually blind.
 
THE LIVING INSTITUTION
 
One natural factor contributing to problems and the proliferation of propagnada lies in the nature of cultural institutions, themselves. Any organized or institutionalized group takes on a life of its own. As a living system, it has the power and the propensity to perpetuate itself. The organized structure survives individual minions and exerts powerful forces upon the individual within the organization. It is no longer confined to the characteristics of those in immediate control and always has a propensity to serve its own systems, often to the detriment of the public.
Institutions become self-perpetuating, their offices and systems operated by a succession of temporary functionaries bent on embellishing their own short tenures and whose reasoning and behavior have been largely shaped by the organization.
Institutional bureaucracy generates massive amounts of inertia, its moves, relecting the consensus of committees and the routine of accepted procedures. In the process, its integrity and rationality becomes but a shadowy vestige of that of its individual functionaries.
The organization moves as something alive, having a drive of its own, to grow and expand its sphere of influence, imhampered by any intrinsic madate for objective rationality or integrity, in contrast to such as found in the individual.
To my knowledge, no cultural institution in today's world has adopted objective rationality as a constitutional mandate, yet such rationality is necessary if the organization is to function as a positive forcé within a society, not being in some way at odds with social functionality.
No existing organization is likely to have true rationality as an operational directive, if for no other reason than that no one seems to understand its roots and how to achieve it. Rationality and a truth or reality-reflecting ethos is generated only as traits of individuals. It is a function born of knowedge and intellectual integrity,  understanding the necessity of accepting reality, like it or not, recognizing the necessity for social facilitation among entities.
Such rationality, rare as it may be, can be found in provate operations. However, within any large organization, it is usually a pale reflection of its source. Significant amounts of rationality, above that necessary for effective operation, are usually limited to organizations outside the realm of government, often under the direction of one individual.
Private organizations tend to be more ethical than governmental because they have to hue to the realities of the marketplace. Governmental committees tend to have trouble with reality. Their motives lie elsewhere, such as maintaining the support of their constituents. They characteristically do not move significantly beyond this point.

Our Inevitable Dilemma

From the momento of birth, each of us are carefully taught a multiplicity of untrue material. The fact that fantasies permeate every aspect of our society insures this. The delusion is proffered or echoed by every institution.
None of us have completely escaped this fantasy environment, nor the pathology it generates. We were too Young when the proccess began and the fantasies have been too consiestent and all-pervasive. As individuals, the only remedy is to begin asserting Independence, to become cognizant of one's own delusions and replace them with knowledge. In a tolerante environment, this process tends to occur naturally, the voids being replaced with knowledge as the delusions drop away. the dropping of belief, in favor of reciprocal knowledge and understanding, provides a shield against the emotional hooks and controls of culture.
The teaching and reinforcement of false material will continue for as long as the institutions are allowed to disseminate it. Whe should count ourselves lucky if, in our lifetime, we are able to significantly reduce the amount of propaganda that pours over us. However, such material has its greatest effects upon the unwary. If we understand its nature, we largely neutraliza the detrimental effects.
People are great kidders. Unfortunately, the thing they are best at is kidding themselves. They live, to a large degree, in their own individual worlds of make-believe. They belong to no groups free of its own set of delusions, which are told and believed, embellished and passed on. The individual is bombarded with false material and distorted reasoning from the moment of birth and, by maturity, is left with Little recognition of, or capacity for, truth as protrayed by the real cosmos. The individual lives with lies and by lies, and is free of them only in death.
Few are able to differentiate between opinión and knowledge; between groundless theories and evidence-supported premises. They have not been taught to think critically and to question authority. They have had to repress critical reasoning in order to keep the faith. The typical individual, in any culture, has Little concern for truth, becoming cynical and grappling endelessly with his or her own beliefs,  distorting perception and reasoning in a continuing struggle to make the pieces fit. Few dare discriminate between knowing and believing. Those who cannot are maleable and vulnerable to the chaos of propaganda and opinión that is endlessly pured over them.

jueves, 1 de noviembre de 2012

LOS MITOS FLECHAZO:



La razón, como el corazón, también tiene sus razones. ¡y son de peso! Tras la revolución de las hormonas, pongamos a funcionar las neuronas...


LOS MITOS FLECHAZO:

1.- 1er MITO: "Sólo les pasa a los demás"

2.- 2° MITO: "Es como un cuento de hadas"

3.- 3er MITO: "Siempre es recíproco"

4.- 4° MITO: "Es el amor verdadero"


Para no equivocarte...

Toma estas seis precauciones:

1.- Conócete a ti mismo. Analiza tu personalidad, explora los rincones oscuros, las carencias, los miedos. Conoce el programa emocional que te mueve y dirige hacia la otra persona. Reconoce hasta qué punto estás dispuesto a comprometerte con ella.

2.- Sé realista. El crecimiento de la atracción puede alimentarse...o frenarse, si se reconocen a tiempo los defectos de la otra persona y se asume lo improbable que es cambiar.

3.- Evalúa las compatibilidades. Analiza tu proyecto de vida y el lugar que ocuparía él o ella en relación al mismo. Contrasta las aspiraciones y deseos de cada uno.

4.- Potencia tu habilidad para expresar sentimientos y deseos. José Antonio Marina dice:"Si alguien te gusta pero no te divierte hablar con él, malo: la relación no durará, porque la conviviencia se mantiene con la palabra.

5.- Respeta la libertad del otro y exige lo mismo. Permite que sus valores y aptitudes salgan a la luz.

6.- Si a la sensatez, no al miedo."El amor es como un pastel de chocolate. Sin embargo no vale con conocer todos sus ingredientes, hay que probarlo", dice Helen Fisher, antropóloga experta.

Me pone a Cien





A los hombres. Cupido les entra por los ojos. A las mujeres, por el oído. y a ambos, por la nariz y la piel... El el "chute" químico del enamoramiento.

¿SOMOS COMPATIBLES?

"No hay que confundir el amor con la emoción de la cacería", dice José Antonio Marina. El amor no es un destello ni un experimento, sino un proyecto que compromete tu futuro. Un buen día hay que salir de la burbuja del flechazo y poner los pies en la realidad. Por eso, debes de plantearte qué los une y que los separa en la vida normal.
Estos son los elementos que hacen que dos personas sean o no compatibles, según A. Vallejo-Nájera:

* Ideas sobre la vida familiar y la conviviencia.
* Hábitos laborales de cada uno.
* El valor asignado a la profesión.
* Nivel del madurez individual y de equilibrio emocíonal de cada uno.
* Papel de los padres, hijos y otras personas importantes para cada uno.
* Objetivos y proyectos de vida individuales y también de pareja.
* Estabilidad económica y capacidad de generar ingresos.
* El valor asigando al dinero y al consumo.
* Valores morales, culturales y religiosos. ¿Son paralelos o divergen?.
* Capacidad para disfrutar del tiempo libre. Aficiones compartibles.
* Nivel de asociabilidad y la habilidad para establecer relaciones.
* Calidad y cantidad del tiempo compartido.
* Capacidad para el compromiso y la fidelidad (si en este punto hay diferencias, mejor dejarlo)

El Hombre Con Los Años No Pierde Potencia SEXUAL





"Después de mi divorcio en mi natal Venezuela, nunca imaginé que volvería a casarme pero aquí en México encontré a una sensacional jovencita con la que tengo una hija de nueve años".
"La relación entre un hombre maduro y una jovencita no estan difícil como se piensa. Por supuesto que esa vitalidad que ella tiene me la ha transmitido, y me ha dado energía para seguir adelante".

ENTREVISTA AL ACTOR VENEZOLANO CARLOS CÁMARA

"Ella tiene 30 años y yo 57, con mucho orgullo puedo decir y presumir que me dio una bella hija".
"Lo importante es que hemos encontrado un idioma y un respeto para comunicarnos entre sí".
"En cuanto a ventajas, uno pasa a ser más que esposo, padre, amigo y consejero; sin negoar que los jóvenes de hoy sean inteligentes, nunca podrásn tener la experiencia de un hombre de mi edad: lógicamente en este sentido he aportado mi parte positiva al matrimonio, puesto que ella era una muchacha joven e inexperta y le he dado cierta madurez, ella es fuente maravillosa de la juventud; ahora hablamos de un hombre mayor con una jovencita en cuanto a sexo y relaciones íntimas, la experiencia es aún más importante para lograr que tu esposoa sea casi tu amiga, tu compañera y tu hija, es más, aunque sea más joven, es importante no caer en la monotonía ni en el aburrimiento de "mi mujer, mi marido", como una costumbre trillada, sino el poder intercambiar ideas"
Bueno y..¿En cuanto a las desventajas de que ella encontrara un hombre más joven o mejor que usted?
"No quiero que después de tres meses de matrimonio me pongas los cuernos, cuando aparezca el hombre de tu vida, aunq dices que "soy yo", queiro terminar esto, por dignidad y amor propio".
"no quiero vivir en engaños y mentiras que es lo único que no perdono".
"Si nos remitimos a hechos y pruebas científicas, esta probado que el hombre no pierde potencialidad a través del tiempo, esto es solo mental, mientras el hombre tenga un incentivo, un hombre y una mujer entre cuatro paredes pueden hacer las cosas más maravillosas del mundo, pueden ser los inventores del amor y el placer, es una aventura enorme del idealísmo; inclusive la parte bestial que tenemos todos, la usamos en beneficio de ese momento para que sea el mejor entre la pareja, si te nacen sentir y te tocan los nervios necesarios para que tu respondas ¡¿Quién no lo va a hacer!? Ahora bien el hacer el amor en la cama, el poder hacer vibrar a una mujer y que al mismo tiempo tu lo logres, es una rte porque no es sólo el acto sexual del coito, si no el momento maravilloso que tiene esa preparación extraordianria para llegar al climax bestial, estupendo y sublíme al mismo tiempo y para eso no hay edad; la gente joven piensa que por ese hecho tiene mayor potencialidad, pero esto es falso y está científicamente probado, ¿ah! en este sentido me consta, nosé cuando cumpla 90 años de edad, pero aún así, tuve un abuelo que embarazó a una muchacha".

miércoles, 31 de octubre de 2012

Algunas Claves para Conservar la Pareja Mucho Tiempo




Algunos expertos estiman que en la actualidad el promedio de vida de una relación es de unos once años. no obstante, conseguir prolongarlo y que discurra de forma feliz es posible si, entre otras cosas, se comparten las decisiones, se muestra afecto con frecuencia y se evitan discusiones ennecesarias...






Como le confesaron su amor...





Agonía del Amor.



En más de 80% de los casos es la mujer la que plantea la existencia de temas conflictivos en la relación.